wbryon99 asked: Cuckolding is just the way a woman acts right before she dumps you for someone else. I am in that camp now and it sucks buddy. Find a different fantasy.

I’m sorry to hear your fantasy ruined your marriage but just because it happened to you it doesn’t mean it will happen every time to everybody.

Open marriage is not a recipe for a long lasting relationship for sure, but monogamy isn’t either.

Does cuckolding put your marriage at a higher risk of failing? I don’t have any statistics to prove it either way but for sure what puts your marriage at risk is to not be honest to each other, regardless of your relationship openness.

At least this is my experience.

I wish you all the best.

My wife asked me this question once. We were at a swinger party and she had sucked a guy for almost an hour while I was playing with the guys’s girlfriend, when she suddenly turned away from the cock and gave me a long deep kiss. 
I kissed her back and could taste the cock in her mouth and loved it. 
She smiled and went back to sucking cock.
Later than night she asked me if I liked it and then confessed she loved the idea of watching me giving a blow job.
Some months later I sucked two guys that took turn at fucking her :-)

My wife asked me this question once. We were at a swinger party and she had sucked a guy for almost an hour while I was playing with the guys’s girlfriend, when she suddenly turned away from the cock and gave me a long deep kiss. 

I kissed her back and could taste the cock in her mouth and loved it. 

She smiled and went back to sucking cock.

Later than night she asked me if I liked it and then confessed she loved the idea of watching me giving a blow job.

Some months later I sucked two guys that took turn at fucking her :-)

michmanblr asked: love the blog - i see the relationship is wife led. Was this a desire of yours also - or she led you to that - if you wanted to be with her? i dated a girl in college that i had a relationship like this - it was arousing in the humiliation yet empowering that she was very happy and shared everything with me.

Glad to hear you like the blog. 

The relationship with my wife became female-led quite naturally. I am submissive by nature, always liked the feeling of being under someone else’s control and had these fantasies for as long as I remember. 

My wife is more dominant, always has been without actually knowing it. I helped her realize her true nature and come to terms with her difficulties about her dominant attitude. She always had guilty feelings about that because “good girls” don’t behave like that :-)

Sometimes she is still unease about the wife-led marriage but she is enjoying the many perks this lifestyle gives: sexual freedom, obedient husband, sense of control. 

While I know she will never push this lifestyle to the maximum, it is still great to be able to share my fantasies with her and live some of them together. 

zhaf5525 asked: where are you from

From your house go right, after the traffic light, first street on the left…

You asked in a post back in Feb. to send you things telling what wives are up to.  First let me say that other than four or five mercy blowjobs in 2009, I haven’t had any form of sex with my wife since sometime in Aug. of 2008.  My wife however usually has up to four steady boyfriends and, due to her ad in an online sex site, quite a few one night stands.  I don’t know her exact count (don’t know if she does either) but I would guess she’s cuckolded me with 250 to 300 men.  It may even be a lot more than that.  I’ve had no sex outside our marriage other than fluffing her lovers when allowed or being put on hands and knees by a few of her lovers while they deposited a load of cum deep in me to be sure I understood my position in the relationship.

Anonymous asked: My wife recently bought a big dildo and makes me bring it into bed at night; it's humiliating to get a cock out of a panty drawer and bring to your wife knowing she will cum from it while she gives me a handjob and I cum on her thigh; any advice.

Sex toys are very common and should spice up people’s sex life. If you find it humiliating and do not like it then talk to your wife and tell her how you feel about it.

Try to understand with her why you feel humiliated, maybe you can overcome this.

Also, tell her your fantasies, ask hers, share your thoughts and listen to her and you will find things that you both enjoy and want to do it.

These conversations can be difficult to start with, but the long term benefits make them indispensable for a fulfilling marriage and sex life.

eroticslut19777 asked: I was snooping and found out that my husbands is into this cuckold websites , than I found his secret diary that he posts on line , how is most wanted sexual fantasy is to watch me with another man , he wants not to be seen but he for sure wants to see, Is this just a fantasy of his or do you think I should try to follow up on this and see where this takes us , Please know that before I found this I was not even thinking of sex with another , Erica N.

Well, you hit the jackpot!

You discovered that your husband is a potential cuckold and if you play your cards carefully you might have it all: a loving, horny, faithful husband and the freedom to flirt, play and fuck with other men. 

To lower the risk of instead losing everything, my advice is to carefully understand if his is just a fantasy or if he could actually handle you being a hotwife. There are some strategies to do this. If you want to know them, let me know.

don618 asked: Hi. Are you serious about sharing your wife? Where are you located? Don

Of course I am serious. She has regular sex with other guys but I don’t control the process.

She chooses whom, where, how and how many to have sex with. 

We are not located in US…or even the northern hemisphere for that matter…