wbusheyj asked: i must ask? does this put a strain on the marriage? mywife and i have been together since high school, we are both in our early 40's although I am not the jealous type i could not bear the thought of someone else with my wife. I guess i'm really showing my age now.I have never cheated on her and wouldn;t.. i think it is great that couples can do this but i think this stuff is more friends with beneifits than husband wife swapping. the friends with benifits wasn't around when i was growing up.
Of course I can only talk about our own experience, but I can definitely say that her sleeping around does not put a strain on the marriage.
Actually it makes it even more special because we have our little secret that bonds us closer. It is not a recipe for happiness or the perfect marriage (there are no such things, as everyone is different) but it works for us.
Regarding your need to put a label on things, are we “friends with benefits” or “husband and wife”?
Well, let’s see:
1. We love and respect and trust and support each other
2. We want to spend the rest of our lives together
3. We want to have kids together
4. We have amazing sex together
5. We live and do lots of things together
but we are not monogamous.
Is monogamy the only necessary and compulsory characteristic for a relationship to be defined as marriage?
alwaysbreezy asked: I'd like to fuck your wife in front of you
I would like that and I would like it even more if you made me suck your cock in front of her!